Monday, September 21, 2020



Last week we looked at Cain and one element of his story is him replying to God’s question, “Where is your brother Abel?” with a sarcastic, “Am I my brother’s keeper?”  We all know the answer is Yes, I am my brother’s keeper.  A few chapters later in Genesis, once the ark has landed, God is giving Noah some instructions, including about food, where the Lord makes eating meat permissible.  There is however a caveat, it cannot still has it’s lifeblood in it.  Blood represents life and life is to be honored and respected.  Moreover, the Lord tells Noah, “for your lifeblood I will demand an accounting.”

Genesis 9:5 - ...And from each man, too, I will demand an accounting for the life of his fellow man.

Things to think about:
God has granted us the precious gift of life, having been created in How own image.  But with that gift comes a responsibility to use it well and for that, and He demands an accounting. Thankfully, if we have received the free gift of Christ, we have redemption of our sins.
o Romans 8:1-2, “Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus, because through Christ Jesus the law of the Spirit who gives life has set you free from the law of sin and death. “
o Giving an accounting of my own life is daunting enough but I am also responsible for the life of my fellow man?  Am I really my brother’s keeper?
“And from each man, too, He will demand an accounting for the life of his fellow man.”
o If this is true (which of course, it is) then what does that look like in practice?
I’d like to suggest it looks like how we are to love God
o Mark 12:30 – “Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength.”
o With these four attributes, they address
Physical (Strength)
Social (Mind)
Spiritual (Soul)
Emotional (Heart)
James 2:15-16, “Suppose a brother or a sister is without clothes and daily food. 16 If one of you says to them, “Go in peace; keep warm and well fed,” but does nothing about their physical needs, what good is it? 
Isaiah 58:7, “Is it not to share your food with the hungry
 and to provide the poor wanderer with shelter—
when you see the naked, to clothe them”
What are practical ways we can put these precepts into action?
Isaiah 58:6, “to loose the chains of injustice and untie the cords of the yoke, to set the oppressed free and break every yoke?
Romans 12:16,  “Live in harmony with one another. Do not be proud, but be willing to associate with people of low position. Do not be conceited.”
What are ways we can put these precepts into practice?

Romans 12:15, “ Rejoice with those who rejoice; mourn with those who mourn. 
Romans 15:2, “Each of us should please our neighbors for their good, to build them up. “
2 Corinthians 2:4, “who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves receive from God.”
Proverbs 17:17, “A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for a time of adversity.”
What are ways we can put these precepts into practice?

Matthew 28:19-20, “Therefore go and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, and teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you.”
Psalm 96:3 - Declare his glory among the nations, his marvelous deeds among all peoples.”
1 Peter 3:15, “Always be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you to give the reason for the hope that you have. But do this with gentleness and respect,...”
Romans 10:13-15, “Everyone who calls on the name of the Lord will be saved. How, then, can they call on the one they have not believed in? And how can they believe in the one of whom they have not heard? And how can they hear without someone preaching to them? And how can anyone preach unless they are sent? As it is written: “How beautiful are the feet of those who bring good news!”
What are ways we can put these precepts into practice?

Let us be prepared to give an accounting not only for our own lives but also for those of our fellow man.  If you ever get stuck in what that might look like, just remember Heart, Soul, Mind, and Strength.

Monday, September 14, 2020

Pain of Cain


If you are the parent of more than one child (or if you have siblings), then you know the same factory can produce very different offspring!  And so it has been since the beginning, starting with Cain (the older brother) and Abel (the younger).  The story is well known but worth revisiting as it has a number of lessons for us today.


Genesis 4:5 - …but on Cain and his offering He did not look with favor. So Cain was very angry, and his face was downcast.



Things to think about:

·      The story of Cain and Abel begins with them each offering a gift to the Lord. “Cain brought some of the fruits of the soil as an offering to the Lord. And Abel also brought an offering—fat portions from some of the firstborn of his flock. The Lord looked with favor on Abel and his offering, but on Cain and his offering he did not look with favor.”

o   During this time there was no law dictating what should constitute an offering so there was no distinction between an offering of plants or animals.  This was simply an act of worship and gratitude to the Lord.

o   We do see that Abel brought fat portions from the firstborn (the best) while Cain brought “some of the fruits…”

o   God knows our hearts.  Why do you think He was not pleased with Cain’s offering?

·      From here, we see that Cain became “very angry”

o   What do you think it says about Cain’s character that anger was his dominant emotion?

o   What would other possible reactions have been?

o   One thing we don’t see is Abel gloating or ruling it over his older brother.  How does this compare with Joseph’s behavior with his brothers after his dream in Genesis 37?

·      God gently said to Cain, “if you do what is right, will you not be accepted?” But He also warned Cain that “sin is crouching at your door, it desires to have you but you must resist it.”

o   God provides a wide open door of Grace to us when we have blown it

o   However, Cain did not repent or show a teachable spirit

o   Rather than looking to change his attitude, Cain sought to cause harm to his brother

·      If there was any doubt as to the content of Cain’s heart up to this point, it is now plain to see in his conniving and murderous plan.  “Now Cain said to his brother Abel, “Let’s go out to the field.” While they were in the field, Cain attacked his brother Abel and killed him. Then the Lord said to Cain, “Where is your brother Abel?  “I don’t know,” he replied. “Am I my brother’s keeper?”

o   His jealousy was so out of control that he did the unthinkable and killed his brother.  Let’s not judge Cain too harshly here though, Jesus told us that if we have anger in our hearts for others, we have effectively done the same thing.

o   To add insult to injury, when God asks him where Abel is, Cain gets sassy and sarcastic – “Am I my brother’s keeper?”

§  We can have a tendency to justify our actions with an attitude that says I’m not responsible for the negative consequences I’m having on others.

·      So Cain was warned and he didn’t repent.  Sin always has consequences.  That’s not to say there isn’t forgiveness but there will be scars.  In Cain’s case, given his lack of repentance, God told him his work wouldn’t be blessed and that he had to leave his family and be a wanderer.

o   Cain now moves to self-pity (my pain is more than I can bear), loneliness (I will be a wanderer), and fear (whoever finds me will kill me)

o   God shows him one more act of mercy by promising him a mark that will serve to protect him from harm by others

·      If you are the parent of a wayward child, please note that God didn’t put any of the blame on Adam and Eve.  He dealt directly with Cain.

·      Lessons for us today

o   God cares about our hearts

o   God gives us plenty of warning

o   Unrepented sin has serious consequences

o   Signs of a Poor Reaction to a Bad Decision

§  Me-centered

§  Anger

§  Won’t listen to reason

§  Blame others

§  Compounding with more bad decisions

o   What did you learn from Cain’s story that you needed to hear or be reminded of?

Monday, September 7, 2020



With Labor Day we mark the end of summer and the coming of autumn. Just like the seasons of the year, our lives go through seasons. 


Ecclesiastes 3:1-8

There is a time for everything,
    and a season for every activity under the heavens:

    a time to be born and a time to die,
    a time to plant and a time to uproot,
    a time to kill and a time to heal,
    a time to tear down and a time to build,
    a time to weep and a time to laugh,
    a time to mourn and a time to dance,
    a time to scatter stones and a time to gather them,
    a time to embrace and a time to refrain from embracing,
    a time to search and a time to give up,
    a time to keep and a time to throw away,
    a time to tear and a time to mend,
    a time to be silent and a time to speak,
    a time to love and a time to hate,
    a time for war and a time for peace.




Things to think about:

·      Seasons are different than the weather.  The weather is a daily event and can change pretty rapidly.  (What is the joke about Cincinnati weather? If you don’t like it, stick around for an hour, it’ll change!)  Seasons are longer and more consistent in their nature. 

·      There is a natural ebb and flow to the seasons of life that is God-ordained.  Each season has its own merits, although some may be more pleasant.

·      The chart below is totally of my own doing (feel free to move things around to your liking) but I attempted to arrange the fourteen different pairs based on their positive or negative qualities and relative intensities into the four seasons of the year.  For example, Love is in Summer (positive and more intense) with Hate in Winter (negative and more intense).



·      Plant

·      Build

·      Gather

·      Embrace

·      Search

·      Keep

·      Tear

·      Speak


·      Born

·      Heal

·      Laugh

·      Dance

·      Love

·      Peace


·      Uproot

·      Tear Down

·      Scatter

·      Refrain

·      Give up

·      Throw away

·      Mend

·      Silent


·      Die

·      Kill

·      Weep

·      Mourn

·      Hate

·      War


·      Our verse begins with, “There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens”.   Let’s take a quick look at some of the hallmarks of each season.



o   Things are generally going well and there is a sense of optimism in the air.


o   Life is in full bloom and the days are long and bright.


o   Perhaps coming off of a high with a feeling that things might be getting worse before they get better.


o   Bleak and dark.  Better times seem far away.


·      Which of the seasons are you currently in? 

·      Have you recently come out of another season?

·      As you have matured (either chronologically or spiritually), have you learned to embrace more of the seasons?

·      How does God use each of the seasons for our growing to be more Christ-like?

Sunday, August 16, 2020

Planning and Providence


I am currently working on a project that I have big plans for.  I think about it a lot and have been putting in considerable time to bring it to fruition.  But what if God’s not in it?  How can I know if I’m wasting my time dreaming a big dream that may go nowhere?  Do you have any big plans you are thinking about too?  Let’s look at man’s plans and God’s providence.


Proverbs 19:21 - Many are the plans in a man’s heart but it is the Lord’s purpose that prevails.


Things to think about:

·      Planning presupposes an end or objective. It is human nature to focus on the result without always taking into consideration the cost.

o   Luke 14:28-30 - “Suppose one of you wants to build a tower. Won’t you first sit down and estimate the cost to see if you have enough money to complete it?  For if you lay the foundation and are not able to finish it, everyone who sees it will ridicule you, saying, ‘This person began to build and wasn’t able to finish.’”

·      Have you ever had a big dream you chased?  Did it actually succeed?

·      What plans do you currently have?

o   Career

o   Financial

o   Spiritual

o   Ministry

o   Avocation

o   Something else?

·      Have you taken any concrete steps to bring it into reality?

·      Have you prayed about it? If so, does your prayer include being OK with God saying, "no" or “not now”?

Putting God first

·      Matthew 6:33 – But seek ye first the kingdom of God and all these other things will be added to you.

·      Proverbs 16:3 – Commit to the Lord whatever you do and He will establish your plans

·      When our motives or behavior are out of line with God, we should expect our plans to come to nothing.

o   James 4:3 – When you do ask you do not receive because you ask with wrong motives, that you may spend your money on your own pleasures.

o   Psalm 66:18 – If I had cherished sin in my heart, He would not have heard me.

o   Isaiah 59:1-2 - Surely the arm of the Lord is not too short to save, nor his ear too dull to hear. But your iniquities have separated you from your God; your sins have hidden his face from you, so that he will not hear.

·      Have you put God first in your plan? 


  • Proverbs 16:9 - In their hearts humans plan their course but the Lord establishes their steps

·      Romans 8:28 – All things work together for good for those who love God and called according to His purpose

·      God’s hand moves across the days of our lives in ways we may never understand.  This is the essence of faith – that God is good, He is capable, that He knows best, and that He cares.

·      Even if our motives are pure (at least as pure as a man’s heart can be) and there is no gross disobedience, it may still be that God’s plan and purpose is different than ours.

o   If that’s the case, can you be OK with that? 

o   Can you actually praise Him for that?

·       If you don’t really have any plans currently, are you starting to get some new ideas of how God may want to use your personality, talents, experience, passions, and spiritual gifts to take on a new project?

o   If you are struggling to think of something, ask others who know you and God well.  Proverbs 15:22 – Plans fail for lack of counsel but with many advisors they succeed.

o   We are here for a limited time, let’s be used in ways that bring glory and honor to God!



Monday, July 6, 2020


Last week we talked about Darkness and Light, including Matthew 5:16 that says, “Let your light shine before men in such a way that they may see your good works and glorify your Father who is in Heaven.”  Since the light that shines forth from us comes from the indwelling of the Holy Spirit, it occurred to me that the fruit of the Spirit is like a rainbow of colors that all work together to produce pure white light.   At the risk of mixing metaphors too badly, let’s use the prism of Scripture to think how the various fruits of the Spirit work together to make up the light we are to shine.  As the world seems to get more and more contentious, we have been presented with an opportunity to shine light into the darkness.


Galatians 5:22-23

But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no law. 



Things to think about:

·      The natural state of things is darkness (Genesis 1) but light requires energy.  The light we are to shine is not self-generated but comes from the Holy Spirit inside of us (if you’re a believer). Jesus tells us that apart from Him we can do nothing and also that He would send us a Helper.

·      Paul says earlier in Galatians 5 that we are to be led by the Spirit (Light) and not by our own natural desires (Darkness). 

·      The current times we live in cry out for light. So if we are to be led by the Spirit and shine light, let’s get more practical about what light actually looks like.


·      Love

o   1 John 3:16-18 - This is how we know what love is: Jesus Christ laid down his life for us. And we ought to lay down our lives for our brothers and sisters. If anyone has material possessions and sees a brother or sister in need but has no pity on them, how can the love of God be in that person? Dear children, let us not love with words or speech but with actions and in truth.

§  How do we show love to others?

·      Joy

o   Psalm 16:11 - You make known to me the path of life; in your presence there is fullness of joy; at Your right hand are pleasures forevermore.

o   It is said that the difference between happiness and joy is that happiness is dependent on external circumstances but joy is more foundational and not swayed by externalities.

o   Joy is rooted in hope. Romans 15:13 - May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace in believing, so that by the power of the Holy Spirit you may abound in hope.

§  How can we share our joy with others?

·      Peace

o   John 16:33 - “I have told you these things, so that in me You may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world.”

o   Philippians 4:4-7 – “Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice!  Let your gentleness be evident to all. The Lord is near.  Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.  And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.”

§  We all know verses 6 and 7 but it’s interesting that verses 4 and 5 mention two other fruits of the Spirit – Joy and Gentleness

§  How can we share peace with others?

·      Patience

o   Ephesians 4:2 - Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love. 

§  Here are four fruits in one verse!

§  My mother-in-law used to say, “Never pray for patience.  You don’t want to go through the training course!”

§  How can we show patience to others?

·      Kindness

o   Ephesians 4:32 – “Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.”

o   It seems that kindness and compassion go together, that we are to treat others as we would want to be treated.

§  How can we show kindness to others?

·      Goodness

o   In Greek, the word goodness, “agathosune,” means “an uprightness of heart and life” (Thayer & Strong, 1995).

§  It seems to me this is closely related to holiness and righteousness.

o   Jesus says about Himself in John 10:11 – “I am the good shepherd. The good shepherd lays down his life for the sheep.”


o   It is both an attitude and a lifestyle. 

§  How can we show goodness to others?

·      Faithfulness

o   Faithfulness is Belief + Action + Perseverance

§  Paul says in 2 Timothy 4:7 - I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, and I have remained faithful.

o   Hebrews 11 is the Hall of Faith chapter in the Bible.

o   These all died in faith, not having received the promises, but having seen them afar off were assured of them, embraced them and confessed that they were strangers and pilgrims on the earth. 

o   By faith Abraham obeyed

o   By faith Noah, being divinely warned of things not yet seen, moved with godly fear, prepared an ark

o   By faith Isaac blessed Jacob and Esau 

o   By faith Moses, when he became of age, refused to be called the son of Pharaoh’s daughter,

o   By faith they passed through the Red Sea

§  How can we show faithfulness to others?

·      Gentleness

o   Proverbs 15:1 - A gentle answer turns away wrath,
But a harsh word stirs up anger.

o   Also expressed as humility or meekness.  Meekness is not weakness!  It is strength under control.

§  How can we show gentleness to others?

·      Self-control

o   Proverbs 25:28 – “Like a city whose walls are broken through is a person who lacks self-control.”

§  You can have the edifice but not the evidence.

o   James 1:19-20 – “Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry, because human anger does not produce the righteousness that God desires.”

§  How can we show self-control to others?